I thought everyone knew what a glory box was. After receiving an odd look from my husband in a second hand store, I realised that it may not be the case. In a world where people move in together before they are married, are glory boxes even still a thing?
Glory boxes are usually ornate, carved wooden chests. Apparently, they are known as “Hope Chests” in the US. They are usually filled with items chosen to help a woman start her household once she is married. My father bought one for my mother for her 21st birthday. This is itself isn’t traditionally how one would acquire a glory box. I remember as a child, I used to lay in front of it, tracing my finger over the carved pictures. When it opened, it had a distinct woody scent. Mum’s chest was usually full of blankets, or whatever else couldn’t fit in the linen cupboard.
I remember being pretty envious once Mum explained what a glory box was supposed to be. The mother of a friend of mine had started one of sorts for her, filling in with kitchen gadgets and towels. When she moved out, she already had an assortment of stuff to take with her. On the other hand, when I moved out at sixteen, I had a garbage bag full of clothes and a journal full of teenage angst…not quite the same thing.
In this day and age, glory boxes are both not relevant, yet totally should be. I don’t want to collect a chest of household items for my daughter, waiting for her wedding day. She may not want to get married. What if she decides to move out on her own? However, I do think that getting a collection together ready for my children when they inevitably leave the nest (read: get nudged out the door) is a very practical thing to do.
While standing in the middle of a second hand furniture shop, my jaw dropped when I found two beautiful, matching glory boxes. The prices on them made my jaw drop further (if that was even possible). Mr Zed had heard me talk about them, but had never actually seen one. “This is them?” he asked, as I traced my fingers over the carvings. I nodded, still in awe of the beautiful chests. “Alright, let’s get them,” Mr Zed said simply.
I could of married him again.
“Guess we’re not having any more kids then,” he said with a laugh as we loaded them into the tray of the car. With two matching boxes, I can see what he means. They are perfect. One is smaller, but I intend to fill them the same way. Over the years, as my children grow, I want to load them up. Fill them with blankets, kitchen gadgets, books full of wisdom, tool boxes, sewing kits…anything that I wish I had when I was 16 and on my own starting in the world.
Curious as to where on the internet I could find them, I checked out the almighty Amazon (please note, affiliate links).
I was actually surprised how many that I found listed under “Hope Chest”!
It might not be traditional. Honestly, I’ve never heard of a boy being given a glory box. From a homestead mother’s perspective, it makes all the sense in the world.
Did your mother give you a glory box? Was there anything inside that you think is a must have?
Over and out,